I always check with my wife and give her a few suggestions. FOCUS ON HERĪ woman needs 20 to 30 minutes depending upon how stressed she is during the day. Otherwise, men should just get that if you need three or four minutes of foreplay before you’re ready to come, you can maybe hold back. At those times, have sex signals that let them know that tonight you don’t have to do a lot of foreplay. Sometimes, it’s the new moon where they’re not really in the mood at all but they can enjoy the intimacy, the closeness. Other times, with a half-moon, they could either have it or not. Sometimes, women are like the moon and they really want their orgasm. It’s easier to direct a man by moving his hand rather than say that’s the wrong place. I feel so good.’ If he’s not doing something that works, move his hand. Long sentences generally don’t work with guys unless you’re really good at conversing, but most people aren’t. The conventional ones are harder, softer, faster, and slower. In the bedroom, you have four commands or sex signals. Whenever a woman is happy, he has greater confidence. It’s so nice getting his confidence back that he makes you happy.
Then, he gets to take full credit for it. #2 is sitting together and planning a date where she gets what she wants.
#1 is learning how to ask for help and being really happy that he did it. How do you open yourself up so a man will want to come in? The first step is for a woman to respond to a man’s seduction. I think there are equally as many men who are bored with their wives doing the same old things, but if they ask or tell her to do it, she resists. How can you give your lover a stealthy seduction technique that moves them towards what you might like to have? How can you avoid bossing your partner around? What sex signals can you use to move them without a verbal direction? I like stealthy seduction techniques because many couples don’t necessarily want to say “I really wish you’d do this to me,” or they don’t even know what they want but they know it’s not what they’re getting.